Ways To Be Happy & To Live A Peaceful Life

Life is not all about having a lot of money. It doesn’t obligate you to always give. Or something that will always come out from you. Sometimes it is better to be silent. And in our life there will be a point that we will ask ourselves this questions “Do I need this?”, “Do they need me here?”, and “what should I do?”. Nothing is better than something, why? First because, if you will give something, there is a possibility that it will cause trouble. Example, when there is a fight, it is much better to shut up and be silent. Because when you keep on talking and talking and giving your side, eventually not everyone will understand you, it will make the problem bigger.

Another example, in a classroom and your classmates are gossiping about someone, it is good for you to shut up, to don’t say anything, it will make you safe when there will be a fight and you will avoid conflict, because if you will say something about that person you will be involved in the fight. Another example, when you have a suicidal or depressive friend, when you give some advice to him/her there is a chance that she/he will misunderstand the advice that you gave and it will cause a big problem. Second, nothing is better than something because, no one will expect on you or depend on you. Example when some of your friends are inviting you to go out, but you are not sure, because you have to do your PETA, then you did not confirm you didn’t say that your coming or not, because you are not sure.

Another example, when two of your friends are inviting you to go out on the same day and same time, the right decision to make is to not go with one of them, to avoid conflict, because for sure if you will choose, it will cause misunderstanding. Then third, nothing is better than something, because most of the time the people who have everything worry more. Unlike to those people, who doesn’t have anything, they still manage to be happy. Now a days it is obvious that those people that has money, wealth, and luxury, they can do everything they want to do, they can go to different places and all but still they are stress, sad, and they still think of a lot of things. And to those who has nothing or should I say those who live a simple life, despite of the things they don’t have they still find ways to be happy to live a peaceful and contented life.

Let’s face it, in this world where we belong we cannot have everything. Although you have these things, there will be something that will always be missing. Always remember that in this world it is okay to be silent, to keep your opinion, and to not give sympathy. Because there are times that we don’t need to express our self, that our opinions don’t matter, and not in every situation we are needed. So if you are going to decide, what will you choose? To have everything and be complicated? To be involve and have problems? Or to be silent and give nothing to avoid conflict and be happy and peaceful?