A Lesson That Can Be Learned by Experiencing Strong Emotions

I experienced strong emotion when my friends didn't invite me to join their surprise for our friend Janessa. I know that day that it's Janessa's birthday that's why I am expecting that they will come to me to get my contribution for the surprise but unexpectedly it doesn't happened.

So because it doesn't happened that afternoon, I told to my self that maybe they will come this evening, so I stay at home to wait for them. Then after an hours they don't still come and that time I am annoyed already for waiting them within an hours, so decided to stop my expectation because I really felt that they won't come and maybe they don't have any surprise for Janessa, then I also decided to sleep early to overcome my annoyed.

When I waked up in the morning the first thing I did is to online, then I opened my Facebook and the first thing who get my attention is their post on Facebook, a post that prove that they surprised Janessa and that was the first time that I felt strong emotion. I was so much angered to them, especially when I remembered that I was waiting for them for an hours and I realized that I just waisted my time for nothing. And because of what happened I decided to make our friendship over and not to talk them anymore.

I overpassed the days without talking and noticing them, no one of them approached me and asked what happened to me because they know the reason why. The days passed and I realized that I missed them so much and I can't live without them, but I don't want to lows my pride. I want them to approach me first that's why I wait their approachment, but it's been a days but they still not approach me. So I decided to do a first move to make us okay, then of course they explained to me the reason and we immediately fixed our problem.

Overall, I learned from this experienced that 'don't always execute your anger, try to look an explanation and acceptable reason to prevent strong emotion'. Actually I always experienced strong emotions those passed days, but because of what happened last time I already know how to handle it without anger but with grouch. I just need to keep it silent and be understandable to keep our friendship growing.