The True Understanding Of Love

Famous advice communist Anna Landers once said “Love is friendship that has caught fire. It is quiet understanding, mutual confidence, sharing and forgiving. It is loyalty through good and bad times. It settles for less than perfection and makes allowances for human weaknesses. ”

I asked everybody around but nobody seemed to know the true meaning of the word love they all told me the Google definition, I find myself wondering, what love is not, where did this word come from, I wanted to know, I decide if nobody can answer my questions I must search though time and find it myself. To understand the true meaning of love we must find out what love is not, love cannot be turned on as a reward. It cannot be turned off as a punishment only something else pretending to be love can be used as a lure, as a hook, for bait and switch, imitated, insinuated, but the real deal can never be delivered if it doesn't spring freely from the heart.

There is no such thing as a prefect love, because everyone struggles to figure out whether a thing or person is worth loving or fighting for. Love is complicated, because of this not everyone is able to find their Romeo or Juliet. At an early age, I believe I was nine years old. I had founded a helpless bird, right away I told myself I would nurture this poor creature back to heath, I told my nine years old self I was in love with this bird, simply because I was a young, naive and didn’t truly understood the meaning of Love. Although I haven’t yet fully understood what Love is, if anyone was to ask me for my opinion, I simply would say love is like the ocean, it never runs dry despite tribulation, dishonestly, death etc. For an example; we are all humans created by God, we do all kind of heartless things including rape, murder, adultery, etc. , However God loves us, his love for us never fails and never stop. Many have said that love is blind, as in we loved people without been able to see their true colors, but those whom are surround around us usually do, however because I love you and myself I won’t let you treat me any less than I am, I won't let you belittle me because I love and respect myself I am able to say yes I love you but no this is wrong.

Many people have different views on love like the Christians for example they define love as a source in the infinite perfection and creativity of divine being god himself is love. while the geeks define love as a changeless noetic heaven seen as the soul's salvation To understand the true meaning of love we must find out where it came from in Old English love is written as lufu which is defined as "feeling of love; romantic sexual attraction; the Christians believe the word love is god himself.

To understand the true meaning of love we must find out some people claim they know what the feeling of love is just because they are in a relationship, but anybody can date someone without loving them I watched my friend expressed that. It was back in high school Norma my friend started dating a freshman even though she was a senior they did all the thing people in relationships do turns out he just dated her cause of her body.